outside of work, household chores, school and religious activities. For example,
watching TV took up half of all leisure time, on average.)
So what’s the best way to optimize your free time? While there’s no perfect
activity that’s best for everyone, Wallman says some experiences are “junk
experiences” and others are like “superfoods.”
The “superfood” activities put you into a state of “flow,” he says, which is “a state
of optimal experience arising from intense involvement
in an activity that is
enjoyable,” according to the American Psychological Association (APA). Finding
activities that lead to a state of flow is key if you’re looking to increase creativity
and happiness.
Experts believe you can achieve flow when your skills are being utilized, you feel
motivated and you aren’t self-conscious but rather have a sense of “total control,”
according to the APA. Wallman says that any pleasurable activity that truly
challenges us has the potential to lead to the elusive flow-state that so many people
are after.
“Flow [is] about being in the present zone [and] really enjoying yourself,”
Wallman says.
Here are seven things Wallman says you should think about when you’re deciding
which types of experiences to invest your time and energy in:
1. Does it leave you with a story?
Making memories through experiences gives us stories to tell. For example, taking
a hike with a friend might lead to a better “story” than re-watching your favorite
TV show alone in your living room. Those stories allow us to develop connections
with other people,
which provides unity, purpose and meaning in our lives,
Wallman says. And when you share a story with someone else, you develop a
kinship that increases your happiness even more.
2. Does it change you?
Anything that forces you to grow or gives you
purpose is key to personal
development. Activities that teach you new skills or capabilities, change your
world view, lead to epiphanies or move you toward a greater goal are all
“transformational.” This could be anything from learning a new recipe to taking an
improv class.