A Different Education
In 1973, in my last year of active duty flying for the Marine Corps when
I was stationed near home in Hawaii, I knew I wanted to follow in my rich
dad’s footsteps. While in the Marines, I signed up for real estate courses and
business courses on the weekends, preparing to become an entrepreneur in
the B and I quadrants.
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At the same time, upon a friend’s recommendation of a friend, I signed
up for a personal-development course, hoping to find out who I really was.
A personal-development course is non-traditional education because I was
not taking it for credits or grades. I did not know what I was going to learn,
as I did when I signed up for real estate courses. All I knew was that it was
time to take courses to find out about me.
In my first weekend course, the instructor drew this simple diagram on
the flip chart:
With the diagram complete, the instructor turned and said, “To develop
into a whole human being, we need mental, physical, emotional, and
spiritual education.”
Listening to her explanation, it was clear to me that traditional schools
were primarily about developing students mentally. That is why so many
students who do well in school, do not do well in real life, especially in the
world of money.
As the course progressed over the weekend, I discovered why I disliked
school. I realized that I loved learning, but hated school.
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Traditional education was a great environment for the “A” students, but
it was not the environment for me. Traditional education was crushing my
spirit, trying to motivate me with the emotion of fear: the fear of making
mistakes, the fear of failing, and the fear of not getting a job. They were
programming me to be an employee in the E or S quadrant. I realized that
traditional education is not the place for a person who wants to be an
entrepreneur in the B and I quadrants.
This may be why so many entrepreneurs never finish school—
entrepreneurs like Thomas Edison, founder of General Electric; Henry
Ford, founder of Ford Motor Company; Steve Jobs, founder of Apple; Bill
Gates, founder of Microsoft; Walt Disney, founder of Disneyland; and Mark
Zuckerberg, founder of Facebook.
As the day went on and the instructor went deeper and deeper into these
four types of personal development, I realized I had spent most of my life in
very harsh educational environments. After four years at an all-male
military academy and five years as a Marine pilot, I was pretty strong
mentally and physically. As a Marine pilot, I was strong emotionally and
spiritually, but all on the macho-male development side. I had no gentle
side, no female energy. After all, I was trained to be Marine Corps officer,
emotionally calm under pressure, prepared to kill, and spiritually prepared
to die for my country.
If you ever saw the movie Top Gun starring Tom Cruise, you get a
glimpse into the masculine world and bravado of military pilots. I loved that
world. I was good in that world. It was a modern-day world of knights and
warriors. It was not a world for wimps.
In the seminar, I went into my emotions and briefly touched my spirit. I
cried a lot because I had a lot to cry about. I had done and seen things no
one should ever be asked to do. During the seminar, I hugged a man,
something I had never done before, not even with my father.
On Sunday night, it was difficult leaving this self-development
workshop. The seminar had been a gentle, loving, honest environment.
Monday morning was a shock to once again be surrounded by young
egotistical pilots, dedicated to flying, killing and dying for country.
After that weekend seminar, I knew it was time to change. I knew
developing myself emotionally and spiritually to become a kinder, gentler,
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and more compassionate person would be the hardest thing I could do. It
went against all my years at the military academy and flight school.
I never returned to traditional education again. I had no desire to study
for grades, degrees, promotions, or credentials again. From then on, if I did
attend a course or school, I went to learn, to become a better person. I was
no longer in the paper chase of grades, degrees, and credentials.
Growing up in a family of teachers, your grades, the high school and
college you graduated from, and your advanced degrees were everything.
Like the medals and ribbons on a Marine pilot’s chest, advanced degrees
and brand-name schools were the status and the stripes that educators wore
on their sleeves. In their minds, people who did not finish high school were
the unwashed, the lost souls of life. Those with master’s degrees looked
down on those with only bachelor degrees. Those with a PhD were held in
reverence. At the age of 26, I knew I would never return to that world.
Editor’s Note: In 2009, Robert received an honorary PhD in entrepreneurship from prestigious San
Ignacio de Loyola in Lima, Peru. The few other recipients of this award are political leaders, such as
the former President of Spain.
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