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Where men are men ….. and women don’t know the recipe for equality
In Granada in Southern Spain, there are some new advertisements which ask men to help their wives
with jobs in the home. These jobs include cooking, washing-up, cleaning and ironing clothes. In Spain,
as in many other countries, many men think that jobs in the home are women’s work. Many women,
especially older women, like to serve the rest of the family. They work very hard to make the rest of
the family comfortable.
Maria is nearly 60 years old and works full-time. She cleans the large building where I work, and she
also works in the cafeteria. Her husband works there too, although his job is not so difficult. When
Maria arrives home, very tired after a long day, her work starts again. The rest of the family can relax
but she has to work. She cooks a meal and then does the ironing. Most of the clothes she has to iron
belong to her five adult children, who still live at home with their parents.
"It’s not fair," Maria says, "but what can I do? When I ask them to help, they always have something
more important to do – going out with friends, making phone calls." 
W h e re men are men .... and women don’t know the recipe for equality
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On the other hand, it is not true to say that all Spanish men are lazy at home. They also have their
duties. My landlord, Pablo, is retired and does a lot of work at home but his wife never asks him to
buy food at the market! The jobs in the home are clearly divided between Pablo and his wife. Pablo
carries the washing up to the terrace but Emilia hangs it on the washing-line. Pablo waters the garden
but Emilia cleans the house.
Younger people are beginning to change but it is a slow process. I asked the men in my class of adult
students to tell me how to cook a meal but they couldn’t do it. "But I’ve never cooked anything," said
27-year old Javier. "My mother always cooks."
Here in Southern Spain men are men and women are women. There is no unisex fashion. Boys and
girls do not wear the same clothes. 
In the summer, on warm evenings, the people of the town meet to talk together. The men stand on one
side of the square and the women stand on the other. This is the tradition.
In Spain there is a special celebration on April 23rd. It is called the Day of the Book. On this day you
give books to your male friends as presents. To your women friends you give a rose. 
Letter from Spainfrom Barbara Lamplugh
The Guardian Weekly
Dec 6 2001