“You've never. . .you've never, ever asked me that before,” she says. They
stay at the table and talk for two hours. She pours out her dreams, her
hopes, and her fears. He just listens. It is nearly midnight before they go to
bed.
Relationships atrophy when you take them for granted. Don't just go
through the motions! Treat your spouse or partner like a newlywed. Treat
old clients like brand new ones. Greet a friend as if you haven't seen him in
a year. Use this simple question—
what are your dreams?—to show you
care and to help reconnect people to their greatest longings.
Absorbed by the details of our day-to-day lives, we are rarely allowed
to dream. Invite a friend or loved one to share their heart with you.
Ask:
“What are your dreams?”
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