Some tell me how close they are to being able to achieve what they had
written. Many tell me how blessed they are to have lived beyond the third
year. I have had glorious comments. I have made a note of all of them. (I
think someday I'll write a book!)
Social scientists tell us that when you make a public commitment to
something, it greatly increases the odds you will actually do it. We know
that if you put it in writing, it leaves an indelible mark on your mind.
Just be careful what you wish for. It may very likely come true.
This is a question that can be used in countless situations. I have used it
with clients, with friends, and the family.
“If you knew you had only three
years to live, what would you hope to achieve personally and
professionally?”
It is a question that will lead you on a journey of wondrous pathways. The
signposts are all down. There's no road map to follow.
This question forces people to begin thinking about how to reorder the
priorities in their life. It helps them understand they must not wait until just
the right time. The time will never be just right.
They will be ignited somehow by an emotional spark. The canvas of their
life is neutral but the details are ready to be filled in and will be fluorescent.
Invite someone to think deeply about their priorities in life and how
they want to spend the remainder of their days. Ask:
“If you knew
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