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Becoming Sexual
We got to my place. We kissed a bit. 
She pushed me away and said “I’m not having sex with you”. What I FELT
was "I want you so bad, I want this, but I’m not sure how you will view me if
I do, so I want to wait until I know a bit more and figure this thing out". 
We talked. I told her how attractive she was when talking about what she
loved. I remember looking at her in a captivated awe as I lay on the bed, with
her knelling towards the end corner of it. She was looking into nothingness
talking about what she is waiting to do when she finishes her exams. She was
keeping her distance, and that was totally fine. She would gradually close the
gap every now and again. 
We Joked and flirted. I extended my hand to her, she took it, and I pulled her
towards me to come and cuddle. She decided she has felt enough of me to
make her decision, and collapsed into me. We started to kiss passionately. I
began to undress her, and she started to remove mine. 
Conditioning continued to pop its head up at times. My role was to allow it
come up, and to allow her process through it without any convincing needed.
Alongside my own internal freedom as a secure guiding force. I would keep
reminding her to open when she closed down. We had a night of amazing sex,
and awesome fun together. 
Most of us listen to the words of others, but never really hear the truth behind
it. What is she/he REALLY meaning? What truth are they speaking? And ask
yourself how can your own freedom inspire others to take hold of their own
life and decisions in a purposeful way. 
This is far more that fucking a girl. It is everything you create and open her
up to, through your own way of being, coming from your OWN truth, and
living life on YOUR OWN terms.

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Giving her the non-judgmental/non-reactive space, with a secure foundation,
and the opportunity to step into that, combined with an endless patience, is
the ideal house for sexual expression. 
You hear that? PATIENCE! 
Why feel the need to rush something so beautiful? The paradox is, gifting
patience results in much deeper and MUCH quicker(sometimes instant)
sexual experiences.