Seduction: Dating From Shy Guy To Ladies Man Dating For Men Memoirs Of a male Seducer: Social Anxiety, Attract Women, Sex, Confidence, Charisma

“Hey, I just saw you from over there and you look so gorgeous. I had to
meet you” -UGH!!!
Seriously…if you think this is being direct and refreshing…the marketing is
lying to you…as
most guys DO in-fact have the ability to walk over and
deliver this pre-rehearsed crap
. 
Understand how many times women hear this on a
daily basis.
If you are
unaware…then maybe first start on getting some female friends! They will let
you know! At least hold yourself to a decent standard of original and
nourishing creativity
. 
Something YOU enjoy saying
. 
Not that. Please, for the love of god. Some will say they choose it, but after
doing this for so long, I straight up do not believe this! 
Instead of all the pick-up-y-ness, why not have the intention of “ 
wow, look at
her, theres something about her i like, lets see what type of human being
she is, without investing ANYTHING in her, other than the free value I
already offer the world…freely, without looking for anything in return”
From that point,
say whatever you want
. It is everything to do with where
you are coming from, not what you are verbally saying. The reason for this
quick article, is to help you understand that at the beginning many guys will
attach their vibe to the words they are using, assuming that this is what gets
the girl….and there we are, straight back to pick-up. 

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Last night there was a beautiful Israeli girl being “picked-up” by at least 4
guys all jumping to be the next to lean in and talk in her ear. My main purpose
when interacting with a woman, is to enjoy myself, share my value, and
maybe meet an interesting/sexy/nourishing person in the process, but mainly,
first and foremost its to be already enjoying my own company, relaxed, and
having fun with her, whether that is steaming sexual tension, or just stupid
and goofy behaviour. 
I walked over and stood shoulder to shoulder with her. I crossed my arms,
she looked at me, and I said “Hopefully if i stand here long enough, they will
get confused and start trying to pick me up”.( 
i said this, because it was an
amusing thought i had, i found it funny, I do not care about her response)
She burst out laughing. I asked her how many of these dudes have already
told her how amazingly beautiful she is. She rolled her eyes and said