Causes of Mediocrity (and Immediate Solutions):
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Rearview Mirror Syndrome
One of the most crippling causes of mediocrity in life
is a condition I call Rearview Mirror Syndrome (RMS). Our
subconscious minds are equipped with a self-limiting
rearview mirror, through which we continuously relive and
recreate our past. We mistakenly believe that who we were
is who we are, thus limiting our true potential in the
present, based on the limitations of our past.
As a result, we filter every choice we make—from
what time we will wake up in the morning to which goals
we will set to what we allow ourselves to consider possible
for our lives—through the limitations of our past
experiences. We want to create a better life, but sometimes
we don’t know how to see it any other way than how it’s
always been.
Research shows that on any given day, the average
person thinks somewhere between 50,000 and 60,000
thoughts. The problem is that ninety-five percent of our
thoughts are the same as the ones we thought the day before,
and the day before that, and the day before that. It’s no
wonder most people go through life, day after day, month
after month, year after year, and never change the quality of
their lives.
Like old, worn baggage, we carry stress, fear, and
worry from yesterday with us into today. When presented
with opportunities, we quickly check our rearview mirror to
assess our past capabilities. “No, I’ve never done anything
like that before. I’ve never achieved at that level. In fact,
I’ve failed, time and time again.”
When presented with adversity, we go back to our
trusty rearview mirror for guidance on how to respond.
“Yep, just my luck. This crap always happens to me. I’m
just going to give up; that’s what I’ve always done when
things get too difficult.”
If you are to move beyond your past and transcend
your limitations, you must stop living out of your rearview
mirror and start imagining a life of limitless possibilities.
Accept the paradigm: my past does not equal my future.
Talk to yourself in a way that inspires confidence that not
only is anything possible, but that you are capable and
committed to making it so. It’s not even necessary to
believe it at first. In fact, you probably won’t believe it. You
might find it uncomfortable and that you resist doing it.
That’s okay. Repeat it to yourself anyway, and your
subconscious mind will begin to absorb the positive self-
affirmations. (More on how to do this in Chapter 6: The
Life S.A.V.E.R.S.)
Don’t place unnecessary limitations on what you want
for your life. Think bigger than you’ve allowed yourself to
think up until this point. Get clear on what you truly want,
condition yourself to the belief that it’s possible by focusing
on and affirming it every day, and then consistently move in
the direction of your vision until it becomes your reality.
There is nothing to fear, because you cannot fail—only
learn, grow, and become better than you’ve ever been
before.
Always remember that where you are is a result of who
you were, but where you go depends entirely on who you
choose to be, from this moment on.
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