After being inducted into the company’s hall of fame,
it was time to move on and pursue my dreams of becoming
an author, speaker, and coach. However,
I had never
achieved my full potential with the company. I was about to
leave the company with the mediocrity monkey on my back.
It was sure to follow me into my next venture unless I did
something about it.
Up until then, I didn’t have a compelling life purpose
that got me up in the morning even when I didn’t
feel like
getting up. I had no purpose that drove me to get on the
phone and call prospects, even when I didn’t
need more
money. I decided in that moment that my life purpose for
the next 12 months would be:
to become the person I need
to be to create the success, freedom, and quality of life that
I truly want. I combined this with my other life purpose
(yes, you can have more than one), which was to
selflessly
add value to the lives of others by assembling a team of 16
other sales reps. I led weekly conference coaching calls to
support them in reaching their goals, free of charge, for the
next 46 consecutive weeks.
Living every day in alignment
with my two life
purposes—constantly, consciously aligning my thoughts,
words and actions with each purpose—not only did I have
my best sales year ever (a 94% increase over my previous
best), but I also led more reps to surpassing the highest
performance level than at any other time in the company’s
50-year history.
To defeat this cause of mediocrity, you need a
life
purpose, which can be any purpose you want. It can be
anything that resonates with and inspires you to wake up
every day and live in alignment with your purpose. Now, I
totally understand that asking you to come up with your
life’s purpose right now may sound a bit overwhelming.
Just remember
that you get to make it up, and this first one
can be something simple, even small. (e.g. “I’m going to
smile more so that I can bring a little more happiness to my
life and to those around me.” Or, “I’m going to ask every
person I meet what I can do to help them, so that I can add
value to more people’s lives.”) It will be your first step
towards a bigger life purpose.
Keep in mind that you can
change your life purpose at
any time. As you grow and evolve, so will your purpose.
What’s important is that you choose a purpose—any
purpose—and start living by it, now. You can even borrow
one of the purposes I just shared with you. (Many of my
coaching clients have.)
Keep in mind that you’re not supposed to “figure out”
what your purpose is, you get to make it up, create it, decide
what you want it to be.
In his bestselling book The Rhythm
of Life, Matthew Kelly enlightens us to a universal life
purpose that I believe we should all live by:
to become the
best version of ourselves. In other words, focus on growing
and being the best you can be, pursuing your dreams and
inspiring others to do the same. That’s your purpose.
Schedule some time this week to think about and
articulate your life purpose. Write it down where you’ll see
it every day. In fact, you’ll have
time to do this during your
Miracle Morning.
Always remember that when you are committed to a
life purpose that is bigger than your problems, your
problems become relatively insignificant and you will
overcome them with ease.
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