86 Improve your Communication Skills
Expressing your ideas
It’s not
enough to have coherent ideas, logically organised. You
have to bring the ideas alive in the listener’s mind. You have to
use words to create pictures and feelings that will stimulate their
senses as well as their brain.
We don’t remember words. We forget nearly everything
others say. But we
do
remember images –
particularly images that
excite sensory impressions and feelings. If you can excite your
listener’s imagination through the senses and stimulate some
feeling in them, you will be able to plant the accompanying idea
in their long-term memory.
Memory = image + feeling
The word ‘image’, of course, powerfully
suggests something
visual. But you can create
impressions
through any of the five
senses: sight, hearing, touch, smell and taste. Some people will
be convinced by pictures; others will only be persuaded if they
hear the words come out of their own mouth. Others again will
only remember and learn by touching: they are the ‘hands-on’
people who demand demonstrations and practice.
Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP)
works on the basis of
people’s natural sensory preferences for receiving information.
NLP seeks to develop this awareness of sensory preference into a
systematic approach to communicating.
Even without training or study, however, you can become
more attuned to the way you respond to ideas with your senses.
Whenever you are seeking to persuade someone with an idea,
think about how each of the five senses might respond to it. Try
to create an impression of the idea
that will appeal to one or
other of the senses. You’ll find that the idea comes magically
alive.
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