Waiting in Line on Saturday
I was ready to face Mike’s dad. Even my real dad was angry with him.
My real dad, the one I call the poor one, thought that my rich dad was
violating child labor laws and should be investigated.
My educated, poor dad told me to demand what I deserve—at least 25
cents an hour. My poor dad told me that if I did not get a raise, I was to quit
immediately.
“You don’t need that damned job anyway,” said my poor dad with
indignation.
At eight o’clock Saturday morning, I walked through the door of Mike’s
house when Mike’s dad opened it.
“Take a seat and wait in line,” he said as I entered. He turned and
disappeared into his little office next to a bedroom.
I looked around the room and didn’t see Mike anywhere. Feeling
awkward, I cautiously sat down next to the same two women who were
there four weeks earlier. They smiled and slid down the couch to make
room for me.
Forty-five minutes went by, and I was steaming. The two women had
met with him and left 30 minutes earlier. An older gentleman was in there
for 20 minutes and was also gone.
The house was empty, and here I sat in a musty, dark living room on a
beautiful sunny Hawaiian day, waiting to talk to a cheapskate who exploited
children. I could hear him rustling around the office, talking on the phone,
and ignoring me. I was ready to walk out, but for some reason I stayed.
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Finally, 15 minutes later, at exactly nine o’clock, rich dad walked out of
his office, said nothing, and signaled with his hand for me to enter.
“I understand you want a raise, or you’re going to quit,” rich dad said as
he swiveled in his office chair.
“Well, you’re not keeping your end of the bargain,” I blurted out, nearly
in tears. It was really frightening for me to confront a grown-up.
“You said that you would teach me if I worked for you. Well, I’ve
worked for you. I’ve worked hard. I’ve given up my baseball games to
work for you, but you haven’t kept your word, and you haven’t taught me
anything. You are a crook like everyone in town thinks you are. You’re
greedy. You want all the money and don’t take care of your employees. You
made me wait and don’t show me any respect. I’m only a little boy, but I
deserve to be treated better.”
Rich dad rocked back in his swivel chair, hands up to his chin, and
stared at me.
“Not bad,” he said. “In less than a month, you sound like most of my
employees.”
“What?” I asked. Not understanding what he was saying, I continued
with my grievance. “I thought you were going to keep your end of the
bargain and teach me. Instead you want to torture me? That’s cruel. That’s
really cruel.”
“I am teaching you,” rich dad said quietly.
“What have you taught me? Nothing!” I said angrily. “You haven’t even
talked to me once since I agreed to work for peanuts. Ten cents an hour.
Hah! I should notify the government about you. We have child labor laws,
you know. My dad works for the government, you know.”
“Wow!” said rich dad. “Now you sound just like most of the people who
used to work for me—people I’ve either fired or who have quit.”
“So what do you have to say?” I demanded, feeling pretty brave for a
little kid. “You lied to me. I’ve worked for you, and you have not kept your
word. You haven’t taught me anything.”
“How do you know that I’ve not taught you anything?” asked rich dad
calmly.
“Well, you’ve never talked to me. I’ve worked for three weeks and you
have not taught me anything,” I said with a pout.
“Does teaching mean talking or a lecture?” rich dad asked.
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“Well, yes,” I replied.
“That’s how they teach you in school,” he said, smiling. “But that is not
how life teaches you, and I would say that life is the best teacher of all.
Most of the time, life does not talk to you. It just sort of pushes you around.
Each push is life saying, ‘Wake up. There’s something I want you to
learn.’”
“What is this man talking about?” I asked myself silently. “Life pushing
me around was life talking to me?” Now I knew I had to quit my job. I was
talking to someone who needed to be locked up.
“If you learn life’s lessons, you will do well. If not, life will just
continue to push you around. People do two things. Some just let life push
them around. Others get angry and push back. But they push back against
their boss, or their job, or their husband or wife. They do not know it’s life
that’s pushing.”
I had no idea what he was talking about.
“Life pushes all of us around. Some people give up and others fight. A
few learn the lesson and move on. They welcome life pushing them around.
To these few people, it means they need and want to learn something. They
learn and move on. Most quit, and a few like you fight.”
Rich dad stood and shut the creaky old wooden window that needed
repair. “If you learn this lesson, you will grow into a wise, wealthy, and
happy young man. If you don’t, you will spend your life blaming a job, low
pay, or your boss for your problems. You’ll live life always hoping for that
big break that will solve all your money problems.”
Rich dad looked over at me to see if I was still listening. His eyes met
mine. We stared at each other, communicating through our eyes. Finally, I
looked away once I had absorbed his message. I knew he was right. I was
blaming him, and I did ask to learn. I was fighting.
Rich dad continued, “Or if you’re the kind of person who has no guts,
you just give up every time life pushes you. If you’re that kind of person,
you’ll live all your life playing it safe, doing the right things, saving
yourself for some event that never happens. Then you die a boring old man.
You’ll have lots of friends who really like you because you were such a nice
hardworking guy. But the truth is that you let life push you into submission.
Deep down you were terrified of taking risks. You really wanted to win, but
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the fear of losing was greater than the excitement of winning. Deep inside,
you and only you will know you didn’t go for it. You chose to play it safe.”
Our eyes met again.
“You’ve been pushing me around?” I asked.
“Some people might say that,” smiled rich dad. “I would say that I just
gave you a taste of life.”
“What taste of life?” I asked, still angry, but now curious and ready to
learn.
“You boys are the first people who have ever asked me to teach them
how to make money. I have more than 150 employees, and not one of them
has asked me what I know about money. They ask me for a job and a
paycheck, but never to teach them about money. So most will spend the best
years of their lives working for money, not really understanding what it is
they are working for.”
I sat there listening intently.
“So when Mike told me you wanted to learn how to make money, I
decided to design a course that mirrored real life. I could talk until I was
blue in the face, but you wouldn’t hear a thing. So I decided to let life push
you around a bit so you could hear me. That’s why I only paid you 10
cents.”
“So what is the lesson I learned from working for only 10 cents an
hour?” I asked. “That you’re cheap and exploit your workers?”
Rich dad rocked back and laughed heartily. Finally he said, “You’d best
change your point of view. Stop blaming me and thinking I’m the problem.
If you think I’m the problem, then you have to change me. If you realize
that you’re the problem, then you can change yourself, learn something, and
grow wiser. Most people want everyone else in the world to change but
themselves. Let me tell you, it’s easier to change yourself than everyone
else.”
“I don’t understand,” I said.
“Don’t blame me for your problems,” rich dad said, growing impatient.
“But you only pay me 10 cents.”
“So what are you learning?” rich dad asked, smiling.
“That you’re cheap,” I said with a sly grin.
“See, you think I’m the problem,” said rich dad.
“But you are.”
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“Well, keep that attitude and you’ll learn nothing. Keep the attitude that
I’m the problem and what choices do you have?”
“Well, if you don’t pay me more or show me more respect and teach
me, I’ll quit.”
“Well put,” rich dad said. “And that’s exactly what most people do.
They quit and go looking for another job, a better opportunity, and higher
pay, actually thinking that this will solve the problem. In most cases, it
won’t.”
“So what should I do?” I asked. “Just take this measly 10 cents an hour
and smile?”
Rich dad smiled. “That’s what the other people do. But that’s all they
do, waiting for a raise thinking that more money will solve their problems.
Most just accept it, and some take a second job working harder, but again
accepting a small paycheck.”
I sat staring at the floor, beginning to understand the lesson rich dad was
presenting. I could sense it was a taste of life. Finally, I looked up and
asked, “So what will solve the problem?”
“This,” he said, leaning forward in his chair and tapping me gently on
the head. “This stuff between your ears.”
It was at that moment that rich dad shared the pivotal point of view that
separated him from his employees and my poor dad—and led him to
eventually become one of the richest men in Hawaii, while my highly
educated but poor dad struggled financially all his life. It was a singular
point of view that made all the difference over a lifetime.
Rich dad explained this point of view over and over, which I call lesson
number one: The poor and the middle class work for money. The rich have
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