complaining. I've seen August after his surgeries: his little face bandaged up
and swollen, his tiny body full of IVs and tubes to keep him alive. After you've
seen someone else going through that, it feels kind of crazy to complain over not
getting the toy you
had asked for, or your mom missing a school play. I knew
this even when I was six years old. No one ever told it to me. I just knew it.
So I've gotten used to not complaining, and I've gotten used to not bothering
Mom and Dad with little stuff. I've gotten used to figuring things out on my own:
how to put toys together, how to organize my life so I don't miss friends'
birthday
parties, how to stay on top of my schoolwork so I never fall behind in class. I've
never asked for help with my homework. Never needed reminding to finish a
project or study for a test. If I was having trouble with a subject in school, I'd go
home and study it until I figured it out on my own. I taught myself how to convert
fractions into decimal points by going online. I've done every school project
pretty much by myself. When Mom or Dad ask
me how things are going in
school, I've always said "good"
—even when it hasn't always been so good. My
worst day, worst fall, worst headache, worst bruise, worst cramp, worst mean
thing anyone could say has always been nothing compared to
what August has
gone through. This isn't me being noble, by the way: it's just the way I know it is.
And this is the way it's always been for me, for the little universe of us. But this
year there seems to be a shift in the cosmos. The galaxy is changing. Planets
are falling out of alignment.
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