Chapter 15 - Motivate Yourself into Action
“It is in the compelling zest of high adventure and of victory, and of creative
action that man finds his supreme joys.”
(Antoine de Saint-Exupery)
To perform at your best, you must become your own personal
cheerleader. You must develop a routine of coaching yourself and
encouraging yourself to play at the top of your game.
Fully 95% of your emotions,
positive or negative, are determined by
how you talk to yourself on a minute to minute basis. It is not what
happens to you but the way that you interpret the things that are
happening to you that determines how you feel. It is your version of
events that largely determines whether
they motivate or demotivate
you, whether they energize or de-energize you.
To
keep yourself motivated, you must resolve to become a complete
optimist. You must determine to respond positively to the words,
actions and reactions of the people and situations around you. You
must refuse to let the unavoidable difficulties and setbacks of daily
life affect your mood or emotions.
Your
level of self-esteem, how much you like and respect yourself, is
central to your levels of motivation and persistence. You should talk
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to yourself positively all the time to boost your self-esteem. Say
things like, "I like myself! I like myself!" over and over until you
begin to believe it and behave like a person with a high performance
personality.
To keep yourself motivated, and to overcome feelings of doubt or
fear, continually tell yourself, "I can do it! I can do it!"
When people ask you how you are, always tell them, "I feel terrific!"
No matter how
you really feel at the moment, or what is happening
in your life, resolve to remain cheerful and upbeat. It's been said that
you should never share your problems with others because 80% of
people don't care about your problems anyway, and the other 20%
are kind of glad that you've got them in the first place.
In
study after study, psychologists have determined that “optimism”
is the most important quality you can develop for personal and
professional success and happiness. It seems that optimists have
three special behaviors, all learned through practice and repetition.
First, optimists
look for the good in every situation. No matter what
goes wrong, they always look for something good or beneficial. And
not surprisingly, they always seem to find it.
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