Seduction: Dating From Shy Guy To Ladies Man Dating For Men Memoirs Of a male Seducer: Social Anxiety, Attract Women, Sex, Confidence, Charisma

 
Things Escalate
My friends started to leave, and we were having far too much fun getting to
know one another, so I suggested we go for a walk. As always I was sexually
playful as we walked side by side. We role-played like a married couple as I
slapped her bum for letting the dog out of his kennel. I flirted and
experienced her reality in the form of how she reacted and responded to my
own truth I embody and express. 
I pushed her up against the wall on a side street, and moved in to kiss her.
She turned her head, and refused in this super awkward and paralysed way. 
I saw this for what it was; her confusion about whether she should be
behaving inline with her instincts, or her social conditioning. I smiled, and
joked, telling her how my mom always encouraged me to kiss strangers. "Not
going to happen”, she said very coldly. If this reaction happened before, I
would of aborted out of fear and shame, assumed I was bad at ‘game’, and
went home to watch more ‘kiss-close’ videos and read more books. 
Instead…I put out my hand! 
Why? 

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Because I wanted to hold her hand, feel her a bit deeper, and make her feel
my sincerity. She put hers into mine. We walked and held hands for a bit,
continuing to joke. I went directly back to the fun and flirty vibe. I was not
affected with what had just happened. This is where most interactions go tits-
up, and the vibe becomes heavy and awkward. This is the result of the man
not relating to her correctly, and projecting his own insecurities onto her. 
I started to ask deeper out of curiosity. She was talking about something she
adored and she lit up with bliss, combined with a big beautiful smile from
ear to ear. I lit up! 
She was holding my hand in a much more relaxed way now, with more force
also. 
Once again, I stopped, and went to kiss her. She turned her head and said,
"not happening". What I really heard was "I like you but I’m super nervous
about this. I need to feel a little more comfortable with you". 
We continued walking and holding hands. She started to now get close and
press her whole arm and shoulder into mine as we moved and spoke.
Everything started to slow down. He body and her energy began to get softer,
melting into me more. 
Why? She was beginning to trust me. I was not reacting negatively or
projecting any awkwardness on her for doing what she felt initially, and now.
She felt the solidarity. It is a safe space for her to let go. 
I was talking about how the moon looks like a giant marshmallow when she
began to cuddle into me. I was allowing her the space to find her own
comfort in me. I was gifting her my honest and real sexual energy, combined
with a centered patience. In a sense, I always feel as though I am coaching
women through this. I am coaching her how to be with me, by letting her
know how I want her to be femininely real also. 
We stopped outside her house. We started to kiss! 
I suggested she walk me home and be a gentleman. I assume what she
REALLY heard was: "Come to my house where we can explore this more.
You're safe, you do not have to do anything you don’t WANT to do"). 
I assured her that I would play MC Hammer as a thank you. She said
nothing...we just started walking in the direction. 

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I continued FEELING how beautifully vibrant this girl was. I loved holding
her hand. The closer we got, the warmer her hand and body became.