people manage to succeed in the first phase.
Make note of your failures as well as your successes. This will help you identify
further weaknesses associated with your behavior, which did not surface during
your preliminary observation stage. Keep trying and refining your plan, based on
what may not have worked for you in the first phase of implementation. Do not
forget to congratulate yourself for the small successes you may achieve during
the implementation stage. This attitude will help you stay motivated in
implementing the plan in the long term.
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The
final step in NLP is the formulation of a plan, which should not be too rigid to
implement, so that you can change it according to what you’re learning. To
come up with a plan, it is important that you don’t have rigid expectations
regarding its implementation. Since it is not possible for us to foresee all
possible delays or obstacles, there needs to be some amount of flexibility in your
plan. Think of ways you can make your existing plan flexible and fluid, to
accommodate changes you may need to make. The idea is to make your plan
work at all times. You may be required to add new steps to your existing plan to
achieve this. Try not to over-complicated your plan by adding additional steps.
You could end up making it difficult to implement. Each step in the plan needs
your time and energy, so be aware of this while planning.
For NLP to be effective, you should be willing to look at your perceptions and
responses honestly and systematically, as
well as hold them up against
exemplary examples of similar perceptive-responsive models. In learning to
master your own perceptions and the
response that arrive from them, you can
become much more effective in engaging other
people and prevent emotional
interpolation that can be damaging to your relationships and other people’s
perceptions of you. By deconstructing your thought and emotional processes
and re-programming the way you choose your words and actions, you’ll find that
you will be soon be modelling the kind of behavior
that sets you apart as
exemplary. It’s important that you be committed to the process and willing to