Welcome to Mr Aslanov’s cefr lessons

 
Q4. Strong families take time to talk to one another. They share their hopes and dreams, feelings and 
concerns. This involves listening beyond words to the meanings and feelings attached to them. A good 
listener can better understand and respond to the needs and concerns of others. It means laying aside 
personal views and really trying to understand the other person’s point of view. Even if you don’t agree 
with their opinion, you can make sure you understand them before responding. 
 
Q5. Members of successful families feel they really belong in their family. Family members feel accepted 
for what they are and promote one another’s self-esteem. They celebrate their victories and help each other 
learn from mistakes. Sometimes life gets rough and we need all the support we can get. A cheering word 
from a family member can really come in handy. Put the words on sticky notes and stick them in places 
where they can be easily found. 
 
Q6. Strong families develop predictable routines, roles, and rules that govern everyday life and provide for 
continuity and stability. Reasonably stable patterns empower a family to deal with the many challenges 
inevitable in family life; without such patterns, chaos would result. At the same time, strong families adapt 
relationships and family rules when needs arise. The varied circumstances of family life may necessitate 
individual adaptation. Since no family knows what tomorrow will bring, being adaptive is a good trait 
for family members to develop. 
 
Q7. Recent studies affirm the importance of love in families. Research shows that expressions of affection 
towards children reduce problem behaviours and enhance children’s development. Strong families notice 
and share positive aspects of each member. They notice the talents, skills and achievements, special 
qualities, and characteristics that make the other person unique. They find ways to be positive even when 
another family member makes a mistake and make a conscious effort to develop closeness and show 
love at home. 

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